Okay, so I mentioned last week that I once competed in the
McDonald's Decathlon. Today, I'll tell you how that experience taught me a lesson I have never forgotten.
In 1984,
McDonald's (capitalizing on Winter Olympics fever) announced that it was holding "Decathlons" all over the country. Rather than bobsledding and skiing, though, we'd be competing in...get ready...burger flipping, drive-thru service, "lot-and-lobby," etc. We had to not only perform efficiently at each station but remember miscellaneous details like the temperature of the fry oil, griddle, etc. A young college student, I was used to memorizing stuff, and I had fun at my job, so I decided to go for it.
To make a long story shorter... I did well at my store and earned the opportunity to compete in the Northeast Wisconsin Upper-Michigan Regionals. Quit laughing--It was a big deal to some people, including (apparently) the owner of our store, because he's the one who drove me to the competition a couple weeks later, some place in Michigan (I think). The ride there was a little awkward for me; aside from the fact that I was an insecure young woman, I was riding in a van with a guy I didn't even know. He was a store owner going to a lot of trouble; I hoped I would make the trip worth his time.
Anyway, we arrived at the McDonald's in which the contest would take place. Right away, my fellow fresh-faced competitors and I were given a tour of the store (which didn't have the same layout as the one I was coming from). I sized up the competition while we walked; they all looked nice enough. There was one girl in particular that I didn't like right away, but only because she was pretty. (Let's call her Evie, short for Evil-Girl.) Another girl I remember was sort of a Plain-Jane type, and she seemed to be too meek to be a threat to me. Still, I started to get really nervous. Was I going to be able to find everything in this new, familiar-yet-unfamiliar restaurant?
Suddenly, I came up with another reason to hate Evie. With a flip of her shiny, tight ponytail and a confident smile, she announced in an I'm-so-superior tone, "I don't know why I'm even
taking this tour! This store is the exact same layout as the one
I'm from. Everyone
knows I'm going to
win!"
And that was the moment my understandable insecurity bloomed into pathological hatred and distraction. Who the
heck did she think she
was?! What a
snot! I wanted her to die. (Just kidding, but I really
did hate her.)
We finished our tour, and the competition was soon under way. I tried to put Evie out of my mind.
"Welcome to McDonald's! May I take your order?"
I did my best in Drive-Thru, making sure to answer every "Beep" within 30 seconds and get the food out the window within a minute or two. I cheerfully up-sold with, "Would you like
fries with that?" The contest judges stood by, making notes and keeping scores on little pads. I felt pretty good about my performance, but I couldn't help but wonder how Evie was doing. I hoped she was off in a corner, choking on a fry or something.
On to Lot-and-Lobby, cheerily wiping tables and bringing napkins to the old folks having their morning coffees, I couldn't help but hear Evie near by, competently performing her front-counter duties with grace. My blood boiled.
A little while later, I was at the Fry Station, busily boxing up those golden yummies. Plain Jane was nearby, pushing a mop bucket past the bun cart when the unthinkable happened. On the back of the bun cart hung a huge bag of ketchup. When I say huge, I remember it being about two gallons worth. (It was probably less, but that's how I remember it.) As Plain Jane passed the cart, she somehow hooked the bag, and I watched as a flood of ketchup splashed out onto the floor. What a
bummer! I was too busy with my own task to stop and help her, but she didn't seem to need it; she quietly and quickly cleaned it up. I felt sorry for her; there went
her chances, I figured.
Before I knew it, we had each gone through the various work stations and were waiting for the results. I don't remember that part, but I definitely remember the award ceremony. My heart was filled with hope for a win, but moreso, a hope that Evie would
lose. I wanted to see that smile wiped off her obnoxious face. A girl like that; so pretty, so
confident conceited,
deserved to lose, right?
I could only hope that I would place in the top three. I thought I'd done well enough, but could I really hope for
1st Place? Apparently not, because when they called out the winner for
3rd Place, I heard my name. My heart sunk.
What?! Third? Didn't I at least deserve 2nd? My cheeks reddening, I plastered beauty-pageant-runner-up smile on my face to accept my award. That was hardly worth the trip! I just wanted to leave.
[I'm sorry, I know I was being petty, immature, and snotty, but it was what it was. This was long before therapy, after all.]
I had to sit there as they proceeded to name
Jane the 2nd Place winner, and guess who took first? Yup--It was that beotch, Evie.
I actually wasn't that shocked that Evie took first. I reasoned that her confidence was clearly based in reality. What
really impressed me was the fact that Jane had passed me right by and snagged 2nd, even after that ketchup debacle. I had been so distracted by my anger for Evie, my own immaturity and weak ego, that I never even
noticed Jane sneaking past me like the infamous
tortoise passing the sleeping hare. When that ketchup had dumped, she kept her cool; she persevered and barely broke a sweat. I knew she deserved to win.
Sometimes, it takes a loss to make a gain. I was so disappointed in myself for getting psyched out and letting my own insecurities interfere with doing my best. That day, I learned the true meaning of the expression, Keep Your Eye on the Prize. I learned that I cannot allow myself to worry about what anyone else is doing. Rather, I need to just be the best me that I can be...
because if you do that, you'll
always be a winner.
